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May 2009 
What was the last blessing in disguise you received?
Posted on Jan 28th, 2009
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Tim
Tim
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 28, 2009:
This one has hard but i am learning that all i have lost or looked like I am going to lose in the last months are creating a stronger more complete person out of me. There were things in my life that I had comprmised and didn't even know that i had do to my last job. The lost of a job has allowed me to explore different spiritual areas I might not have before. The situation with my wife is helping me become more independent and opening up a desire to play that I didn't before.. All this is also moving me in a direction of healing and therapy I hadn't seen before.
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Peace
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Tim - how is it going with your wife now? Any chance that that desire to play could be used with her? Any possibility of getting someone else to mind the kids, and getting away with your wife for a couple of days of fun and relaxation? And from another of your responses, how about making yourself completely dependent on her for one day? She gets you up, picks out your clothes, gets you food and drink, decides everything you will do that day… Try relinquishing all control - how does that feel?
thanks for asking. I am in a weird relationship with my wife right now we are together growing stronger as friends but moving apart as spouses. We got married young and both very emotionally damaged. She is always a little a head of me maturing and she and I are trying to figure out how not to be so co-dependent on each other. She also doesn’t feel any magic toward me all though she seems really confused about that and insist she loves me?
thanks for the ideas I am trying to bring play into both of our lives as we spent to much of life being serious. I am soliciting any ideas especially at this time ideas that don’t cost to much .
thanks